If your goal is to succeed in life, then, despite what movies or television might tell you, you don’t need to be loud and aggressive on your way to the top. Sometimes it is healthier to sit back and silently observe.
The Position of a Silent Observer Is a Powerful One
Being a silent observer is a respected position because you are not there to take sides immediately. You take in every side and listen to every point. You can see things from multiple perspectives before concluding. You are not the type who shuts down others’ ideas because you listen to their position and respect their opinions.
You Are More Diligent with Work
The people in your network will not think of you as someone who aggressively forces your agenda on people. Imagine being at a meeting full of excited people to share their ideas, only for them to be drowned out by you and your thoughts with no regard for their wishes. Not only will you affect their productivity and morale, but they will have less respect for you. A silent observer does not disregard the opinions of anyone who sit at the table. As a silent observer, you are not shutting down a potentially good idea because you are open to listening.
How Can I Be a Better Silent Observer?
The best advice for being a silent observer is in the name itself: be quiet. Sit down and take a minute to take everything in. Be conscious of everyone’s body language, feelings, and opinions. You need to read the room and encourage them to talk more without shutting down their ideas.
Take a look back on any recent conversations you’ve had. Did you dominate the conversation? And did the other person look uneasy during the conversation?
